Some days aren't like others

  • It’s late, tonight, and I’m about to go to bed, but I wanted to jot down a few notes:
    • I’m full of cakes my mom made and sushi she didn’t make, eaten in that order. White chocolate and passion fruit together always makes me flash back to my wedding day. It’s a great association.
    • The folks at Helen Hayes have successfully lobbied the insurance company for another week of fine-tuning, so I’ll be discharged from here next weekend: March 7th. Exactly 2 months to the day after being admitted. I’m mostly ready now, and I think I’ll definitely be ready to go in a week.
    • I’ll be heading down to New York City both days this weekend. My PT and I have done a lot of work on my crutch skills this past week, and my PT has asked me to do as much of my maneuvering and travel on my crutches as possible. Put another way: I’m to stay out of the wheelchair unless I’m falling over tired… or falling over.
    • If you had told me 8 weeks ago I’d be standing upright when I left this place, I’d have laughed out loud.
    • Also, the loaner wheelchair that insurance has provided is a cheap, uncomfortable chair more suited to being pushed than self-locomotion, so I’ll have plenty of motivation to use it only when necessary.
    • Yesterday was the first day I believe I really started feeling guardedly optimistic about how my recovery might continue.
    • Kate, our parents, and a cast of thousands have completed the apartment move, minus some small unpacking and rearranging left to be done. According to the reports I got, it went awesomely smoothly and Kate didn’t have to lift a thing.
    • I have the best friends in all the world. The calls, visits, collaborative miracles, and love keep flowing in.
    • And in exciting maybe news, maybe not, Kate thinks she might have felt some motion in her abdomen… but isn’t sure. Watch this space for further action.
  • So all in all, I feel like a very lucky guy tonight.